Steven Stayner

Birthday April 18, 1965

Birth Sign Aries

Birthplace Merced, California, U.S.

DEATH DATE 1989-9-16, Merced, California, U.S. (24 years old)

Nationality United States

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1951

When the police checked into his background they found a previous sodomy conviction from 1951.

Both children were reunited with their families that day.

1965

Steven Gregory Stayner (April 18, 1965 – September 16, 1989) was an American kidnapping victim.

1972

On December 4, 1972, seven-year-old Stayner was abducted in Merced, California, by child molester Kenneth Parnell.

He was held by his abductor 38 mi away in Mariposa County, California, and later in Mendocino County, California, until he was aged 14, when he managed to escape with another of Parnell's victims, five-year-old Timothy White.

Steven Stayner was the third of five children born to Delbert and Kay Stayner in Merced, California.

He had three sisters and an older brother, Cary.

On the afternoon of December 4, 1972, Stayner was approached on his way home from school by a man named Ervin Edward Murphy, who had become acquainted with convicted child rapist Kenneth Parnell as they both worked at a resort in Yosemite National Park.

Murphy, described by those who knew him as a trusting, naïve, and simple-minded man, had been enlisted by Parnell (who had passed himself off to Murphy as an aspiring minister) into helping him abduct a young boy so that Parnell could "raise him in a religious-type deal," as Murphy later stated.

Acting on instructions from Parnell, Murphy passed out gospel tracts to boys walking home from school that day and, after spotting Stayner, claimed to be a church representative seeking donations.

Stayner later claimed that Murphy asked him if his mother would be willing to donate any items to the church.

When the boy replied that she would, Murphy then asked Stayner where he lived and if he would be willing to take Murphy to his home.

After Stayner agreed, a white Buick driven by Parnell pulled up, and Stayner willingly climbed into the car with Murphy.

Parnell then drove a confused Stayner to his cabin in nearby Catheys Valley instead.

Unbeknownst to Stayner, Parnell's cabin was located only several hundred feet from his maternal grandfather's residence.

Parnell molested Stayner the first night at the cabin.

Parnell began raping Stayner thirteen days later, on December 17, 1972.

After Stayner told Parnell many times during that first week that he wanted to go home, Parnell told Stayner that he had been granted legal custody of the boy because his parents could not afford so many children and that they did not want him anymore.

Parnell began calling the boy Dennis Gregory Parnell, retaining Stayner's real middle name and his real birth date when enrolling him in various schools over the next several years.

Parnell passed himself off as Stayner's father, and the two moved frequently around California, living in locations including Santa Rosa and Comptche.

Parnell allowed Stayner to begin drinking at a young age and to come and go virtually as he pleased.

Parnell had also moved from one menial job to another, some of his work requiring travel and leaving Stayner unguarded, causing an adult Stayner to remark he could have easily used these absences as opportunities to flee, but was unaware how to summon help.

One of the few positive aspects of Stayner's life with Parnell was the dog he had received as a gift from him, a Manchester Terrier that he named Queenie.

This dog had been given to Parnell by his mother, who was not aware of Stayner's existence during the period when he was being held by Parnell.

For a period of eighteen months, a woman named Barbara Mathias lived with Parnell and Stayner.

According to Stayner, Mathias, along with Parnell, raped him on nine occasions at the age of nine.

1975

In 1975, on Parnell's instruction, Mathias tried to lure another young boy, who was in the Santa Rosa Boys' Club with Stayner, into Parnell's car.

The attempt was unsuccessful.

Mathias later claimed to have been completely unaware that "Dennis" had been kidnapped.

As Stayner entered puberty, Parnell began to look for a younger child to kidnap.

Parnell had used Stayner to attempt to kidnap children on prior occasions, but all the kidnapping attempts were unsuccessful.

This caused Parnell to believe Stayner lacked the means to be an accomplice.

Stayner revealed later that he had intentionally sabotaged these failed kidnappings.

1980

On February 14, 1980, Parnell and a teenage friend of Stayner's named Randall Sean Poorman kidnapped five-year-old Timmy White in Ukiah.

Motivated in part by the young boy's distress, Stayner decided to return the boy to his parents.

On March 1, 1980, while Parnell was away at his night security job, Stayner left with White and hitchhiked into Ukiah.

After they were unable to locate White's home, they went to a police station.

By daybreak on March 2, 1980, Parnell had been arrested on suspicion of abducting both boys.

1981

In 1981, Parnell was tried and convicted of kidnapping White and Stayner in two trials.

2002

In 2002, Cary was convicted and sentenced to death for the murders of four women.