Julie Cypher

Film director

Birthday August 24, 1964

Birth Sign Virgo

Birthplace Wichita, Kansas, U.S.

Age 59 years old

Nationality United States

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1964

Julie Cypher (born August 24, 1964) is an American film director best known for being the former partner of musician Melissa Etheridge and former spouse of Lou Diamond Phillips.

Cypher was born in Wichita, Kansas, to Dick and Betty ( Jackson) Cypher, and has an older sister named Melanie.

She attended the University of Texas at Austin studying television and film.

1987

She married actor Lou Diamond Phillips on September 17, 1987.

1990

Two years later, she met Etheridge while assisting on the music video for the single "Bring Me Some Water", and split with Phillips in 1990 to start a relationship with Melissa Etheridge.

1995

Cypher directed the 1995 film Teresa's Tattoo, starring Phillips, C. Thomas Howell, and Kiefer Sutherland.

After originally spending roughly three years in a marriage with Lou Diamond Phillips, Cypher was a gay rights advocate, and became famous for being one half of one of the first publicly queer celebrity couples.

In 1995 she and Melissa Etheridge appeared in a "We'd Rather Go Naked Than Wear Fur" poster campaign for PETA.

1997

During her partnership with Etheridge, Cypher gave birth to two children via artificial insemination: a daughter, Bailey Jean, born in February 1997, and a son, Beckett, born November 1998.

Although initially reluctant to discuss it, the couple eventually revealed that the biological father of both children was musician David Crosby.

1999

In a 1999 therapy session, Cypher told Etheridge that she (Cypher) was "not gay", and the couple split in September 2000.

2004

Cypher went on to marry Matthew Hale in 2004.

2020

On May 13, 2020, Etheridge announced via Twitter that their son, Beckett, died at age 21.